After learning of the death of Melissa and Mark Hortman and the attack on the Hoffmans, I was devastated, seeking comfort in a No Kings protest in Watertown SD, then traveling on the back roads to the Big Stone Wildlife Refuge, a public place that area residents worked together years ago to protect from expansion of nearby quarrying.
I climbed on the big stones, admired the rare cacti, and prayed for the Hortmans and Minnesota.
It's some comfort to know their children understand and support these healing impulses. I gave my neighbors a cake yesterday, and will soon plant another fruit tree here in Summit, South Dakota.
From the Minnesota Reformer.
Children of Melissa and Mark Hortman release statement on their deaths
by Izzy WagenerSophie and Colin Hortman, the children of Rep. Melissa Hortman and her husband, Mark, issued a statement Monday calling on people to honor their parents’ legacy by doing “something, whether big or small, to make our community just a little better for someone else.”
The Hortman children are grieving following the Saturday killing of their parents, in what has been called a political assassination. Rep. Melissa Hortman was a longtime Democratic-Farmer-Labor legislator beloved around the Capitol even as she scored major legislative victories.
“We are devastated and heartbroken at the loss of our parents, Melissa and Mark. They were the bright lights at the center of our lives, and we can’t believe they are gone. Their love for us was boundless. We miss them so much,” the release said. “We want everyone to know that we are both safe and with loved ones. We are grateful for the outpouring of love and support we have received, and we appreciate your respect for our family’s privacy as we grieve.”
The Hortman children thanked law enforcement for their efforts, which led to the arrest of suspect Vance Boelter on Sunday night. Boelter also wounded Sen. John Hoffman and his wife, Yvette, though they are on a path to recovery.
The Hortman children emphasized the legacy that their parents will leave behind.
“Our parents touched so many lives, and they leave behind an incredible legacy of dedication to their community that will live on in us, their friends, their colleagues and co-workers, and every single person who knew and loved them,” the release said.
The Hortmans asked that people do an act of kindness in the memory of their parents’ commitment to service, sharing a list of suggestions.
“The best way to honor our parents’ memory is to do something, whether big or small, to make our community just a little better for someone else.”
They suggested planting a tree, telling a dad joke, and baking something to share — “bread for Mark or a cake for Melissa”.
“Pet a dog,” was on the list “A golden retriever is ideal but any will do.”
The Hortman family’s dog, a golden retriever named Gilbert, was euthanized after he was injured in the shooting. Hortman originally trained him as a service dog before he became a permanent member of the family.
Sophie and Colin Hortman ended the statement with a call to action.
“Hope and resilience are the enemy of fear. Our parents lived their lives with immense dedication to their fellow humans. This tragedy must become a moment for us to come together. Hold your loved ones a little closer. Love your neighbors. Treat each other with kindness and respect.”
Bluestem Prairie footnote: One of many shares of the statement on the X platform
Statement from Sophie and Colin Hortman, children of Rep. Melissa Hortman and her husband, Mark:
— Caroline Cummings (@CaroRCummings) June 17, 2025
"The best way to honor our parents' memory is to do something, whether big or small, to make our community just a little better for someone else.” pic.twitter.com/XF4GGbdDOe
This Minnesota Reformer article is republished online under Creative Commons license CC BY-NC-ND 4.0.
Photo: My view of the Big Stone Wildlife Refuge on Saturday afternoon.
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